Former TVB actor Matthew Ko and his wife, businesswoman Christine Wong, publicly defended their 10-month-old daughter this week after a family travel video shared on social media triggered a round of unsolicited and derogatory comments focused on the baby’s appearance. The incident in Japan, intended as a routine update for fans, quickly became a flashpoint for discussing the persistent and toxic trend of criticizing minors online, prompting a swift and sharp rebuke from the child’s parents and sparking widespread support from other users.
The controversy began when Ko, 41, posted personal moments from the family’s trip, featuring Wong, 31, and their infant daughter. While many followers offered goodwill, the content quickly drew negative attention, with some users posting comments targeting the baby’s looks and, subsequently, Wong’s own appearance.
Wealth and Appearance Fuel Online Scrutiny
One widely circulated comment on the social media platform Xiaohongshu suggested the infant “didn’t inherit her dad’s good looks at all” and remarked critically on the mother’s face.
Christine Wong, who operates a successful chain of beauty salons and has expanded professionally into the finance sector, immediately pushed back against the anonymous critique. Employing a mix of humor and indignation, Wong retorted, challenging the commenter’s own appearance by asking if their face was “as sweet as a Wang Wang gummy candy?”
This pointed response struck a chord with many followers, who praised her wit and decisiveness. Online users rallied to the family’s defense, urging the couple to disregard the abuse and noting that the scrutiny seemed fueled by Wong’s profile as a successful entrepreneur. The couple’s December marriage announcement had already drawn significant media attention focused on Wong’s considerable wealth and business achievements, as well as her status as a divorcee with two children from a previous relationship.
Addressing the Broader Issue of Cyberbullying
The incident highlights a disturbing pattern of online behavior targeting the children of public figures. Experts note that while celebrities face constant scrutiny, extending that criticism to minors—especially infants—is a form of cyberbullying that requires clear boundaries and societal rejection. Such commentary, regardless of intent, can normalize the trivialization of appearance, fostering a judgmental environment that harms both the mental well-being of the parents and, eventually, the child.
Despite his wife’s considerable success, Matthew Ko has maintained focus on his own career, clarifying that he is not financially dependent on her. The former leading man has recently sought to diversify his professional image, including joining the “uncle” boyband Give Me Five and engaging in modern entertainment outlets like live streaming and participating in online dance challenges.
This family’s experience serves as a reminder to the public and social media platforms about the necessary vigilance against malicious commentary and the importance of fostering a respectful digital environment that protects children from unwarranted public scrutiny. As public exposure through social media expands, so too does the responsibility to treat minors with decency and respect.