The enduring mystery surrounding the 2020 marriage of celebrated Taiwanese singer Wilber Pan and former Chinese flight attendant Luna Xuan has finally received clarification from the woman at the center of the controversy, often dubbed “Sister Amy.”
In a recent move to quell years of fervent speculation involving alleged “pickup artist training camps,” Amy, an entertainment manager, used the Chinese social platform Xiaohongshu to share a personal account of how she facilitated the initial meeting and subsequent courtship between the now-married couple, who reportedly welcomed a daughter in 2020. Her narrative directly challenges Pan’s previous public statement regarding the genesis of their romance, renewing public interest in the relationship’s true origins.
Addressing the “Training Camp” Theory
Since Pan, 45, and Xuan, 31, announced their nuptials, their exceptionally low-profile union has been overshadowed by persistent rumors. These gained traction primarily due to a widely circulated 2020 social media comment by Chinese billionaire heir Wang Sicong, who praised “Sister Amy” for apparently guiding both Xuan and Moka Fang—the wife of Hong Kong superstar Aaron Kwok—into high-profile marriages.
This comment fueled conjecture that Amy had established an elite social-etiquette or “training camp” designed to coach women on strategically marrying celebrities.
Amy, however, decisively refuted the existence of any formal program. She explained that her involvement was strictly limited to private introductions between friends. “I only privately introduced friends to one another,” she affirmed, insisting there was never an actual “training camp.”
Orchestrating an Intimate Matchmaking Process
Amy revealed that the introduction originated from Xuan herself. Expressing admiration for Pan’s music and a desire to connect, Xuan approached Amy—a mutual friend—about an introduction.
Far from a chance encounter, Amy detailed a deliberate, multi-stage process she implemented to foster a natural environment for the pair to connect. Initially, she organized large-scale, casual gatherings, such as karaoke nights, involving up to twenty people. Over time, these groups were systematically pared down, evolving into small, intimate dinners of just four to six attendees. This increasingly private setting allowed Pan and Xuan to interact organically and build a rapport far removed from the pressures of larger social scenes.
Amy noted that Xuan’s demeanor during these gatherings—described as quietly polite—distinguished her from the highly competitive social dynamics often seen in Shanghai’s elite circles. Sensing a favorable impression from Pan toward Xuan, Amy began strategically focusing conversations, creating dedicated opportunities for the two to engage in deeper dialogue. She characterized this approach as identifying a person’s unique “spark” and nurturing it until a connection is solidified.
Discrepancy Raises New Questions
Interestingly, despite her instrumental role in their introduction, Amy stated she was unaware of the timeline for their relationship progression, claiming she only learned about their marriage via public news reports.
The most notable outcome of Amy’s disclosure is the conflicting account it presents compared to Pan’s earlier statement. The pop star had previously claimed that he and Xuan met purely by chance on a commercial flight. This newly revealed discrepancy between Amy’s intricate matchmaking process and Pan’s narrative of spontaneous serendipity has inevitably led to renewed public scrutiny regarding the relationship’s factual foundation, ensuring the high-profile couple remains a topic of widespread discussion across Asian entertainment media.